The great British reserve is alive and kicking in the bedroom. Even in these enlightened times, sex is still a taboo subject for many couples. Frequently this stems from guilt, shame, misunderstanding and embarrassment. Yet, it doesn't have to be that way. So many people are missing out on a healthy and satisfying sex life just because they cannot tell the person who they are closest to how they feel.
So, if this describes you, you can take cold comfort that you are not alone. However, just because it impacts on so many people's lives does not make it right or even acceptable.
We live in a society that gives us misinformation and mixed messages around sex and sexual pleasure.
On the one hand, some religions demonise sex and in particular female pleasure from sex. While on the other hand, films and television shows show people having sex with strangers. Most of the time, it is perfect, satisfying, with no hiccups, no mess, no regrets. Most of us know that these extremes are unrealistic. Yet, we still allow media and that includes social media to impact on our sex lives.
One of the single most important aspects of any relationship is honesty. Yet, so many people from so many different backgrounds have these insurmountable kinks when it comes to the discourse around sex and sexual satisfaction in particular. Human beings of both sexes are designed to enjoy sex. Let me repeat that: Human beings of both sexes are designed to enjoy sex. That includes you.
There is help available. Solution focussed hypnotherapy works.We work through the anxiety and kinks and build the pathway to honest discussion and openness, bringing you the healthy sex life that you desire and deserve. For more info quick here